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chelle21689 · 08-08-2010, 10:57 AM

Okay, but there are plenty of other people to become friends with that are men. I honestly would feel better if he was good friends with men then women. Anyways, I'm finishing my bachelor's in 2 years and the plan was for me to move out there and finally end the distance. By then, he should be back from a deployment but I think we may have to extend the distance...it is uncertain because it depends on the Army and his circumstance.

He has a good chance of going to language school 6 hours away for about 10 months. He'll likely have to EARN phone privileges, visits, and off-post passes for the first several months. It'd be terrible if I moved to Los Angeles where he is now only to have him go away for a year in a different city and for me to try to move again. That's 2 years from now, so we'll see. Until then we keep visiting every 2-3 months and talking every day.

08-08-2010, 10:57 AM	#3 (permalink)
chelle21689 Tilted	Okay, but there are plenty of other people to become friends with that are men. I honestly would feel better if he was good friends with men then women. Anyways, I'm finishing my bachelor's in 2 years and the plan was for me to move out there and finally end the distance. By then, he should be back from a deployment but I think we may have to extend the distance...it is uncertain because it depends on the Army and his circumstance. He has a good chance of going to language school 6 hours away for about 10 months. He'll likely have to EARN phone privileges, visits, and off-post passes for the first several months. It'd be terrible if I moved to Los Angeles where he is now only to have him go away for a year in a different city and for me to try to move again. That's 2 years from now, so we'll see. Until then we keep visiting every 2-3 months and talking every day.