I can completely relate with you on this. I had it all going good for me just like you, the car, the job, the air of "I can do this," then was hit with a life changing experience for the worst. Now I'm amidst problems where I'm 98% on my own in trying to solve things and jobless. I've basically lost everything, on top of getting screwed by not my credit card company but by the world-renowned hitters my cell phone provider. May not seem like that big of a deal but for someone in as bad as shape as me, it can seem like digging your own grave the more bills you get.
My hope for you is that in the last two weeks you've posted this maybe things have turned out a little better for you in terms of sorting out the problems with your financial tumble. The bike, what can I say? I'm not an auto-oritented person and can only give you good luck but the most important thing is that you keep up high spirits at work.
What's worked for me the past months I've been going through this is really focusing on myself and that innate will inside you to just move on. Keep doing your best at work no matter how you feel, and even if your shitty CC company ends up giving you the boot, you can take a hit but always make it back in the future through hard work and sticking it through.
Anyway, good luck to you. I guess I felt like reaching out because of the resemblence in my own situation and don't want to come on too strong. Best of luck. Venting, ftw.
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