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Old 08-02-2010, 08:30 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by katyg View Post
...and in doing so, I made myself well, not myself anymore. I was paranoid, lost my confidence and smile.

I have started to exercise more, joined a jewellery class, a photography class and begun to socialise a lot more. I am trying to move on.
Sounds like you're on your way to find yourself again. When you "bend" and adapt too much it's easy to loose your true identity - finding back to mine is a journey still not completed.

By taking up activities you like, you are doing something for you - because you want to. Sound like your on the right track

Burning, throwing away or keeping memories - it all depends on how they make you feel. If they put you down - makes you feel bad then burn them.
If you can look at them and remember how your life was - both the good and bad stuff - and realize you have grown, then they are just memories - a proof you have lived, loved, lost and moved on.

My wise mom once told me the path you have traveled in life has made you the wonderful person you are today.
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