I say you have it easy man!
Nobody will notice you're going to be a dad, everybody will notice she is going to be a mother; if you decide to abort, is she, not you, who must likely will get scarred for life by the experience; if she decides to keep the baby, is she who will have to put her academic, social and work life on a hiatus, not you (assuming you won't go and live with her, assumption more than reasonable taken into account everything you have said in this and other threads), you won't have to spend night after night feeding and taking care of the baby, you won't get all preoccupied and stressed because the baby is sick, won't eat or is crying for no reason, no man, you won't experience any of those shortcomings, all you'll have to do is pay a monthly sum to support the baby and that's it, I say you have it easy taking everything into account, so, my advice to you: MAN UP and thank God you are the man and not the girl in the situation, then go and buy a shitload of condoms, this time with Nonoxynol-9 for your future sexcapades, or better yet, refrain to engage in activities which consequences you are more than clear unable and unwilling to accept.
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Last edited by ironman; 07-30-2010 at 04:28 PM..
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