Is it actually necessary?
It's simple: She doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to do. She doesn't have to do something her partner wants because he really wants it. It's called respect. I've never pressed any of my partners to do anything they didn't want to do or weren't secretly hoping I'd bring up. Maybe I've been lucky but whatever... sex anxiety is stupid. If he keeps bugging her about it, he's being a pushy douchebag. If she feels "pressure" about doing something she doesn't want to do just to please him... she's being a sap.
TLDR: She doesn't have to let her dude plow her ass just because he wants it.
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That and I don't think "years in the military" turns people into sexual deviants. I was a sexual deviant long before I buttoned up a uniform. Hah!
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People that dislike porn are probably taking it too seriously or have body image issues. I've got a dick the size of a Levi's zipper pull and I'm okay with myself.
I feel like maybe a "people can't tell the difference between fantasy and reality" rebuttal tirade should be in my future, but I doubt it'd go over well.
Last edited by Plan9; 07-06-2010 at 10:33 AM..
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