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It sounds to me like you're reaching the point in your relationship where things are starting to get semi-serious, at least. That means you've reached a point where she isn't just going to deal with the things you do that bug her anymore. She feels comfortable enough in the relationship that she can bring up some of her concerns. This isn't a bad thing. This is progression...
It's time to put your paranoia about the other people she's met aside and take her concerns into consideration. Decide if the things she's complaining about are legitimate concerns. If not, maybe she is just trying to bail without the guilt. Chances are, though, she just wants to evolve the relationship and work with you to make things as enjoyable as possible for both of you.
I have a limited view on your situation, but I'd wager she's just trying to communicate, and you getting defensive and paranoid would be about the worst way to handle that.
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