I definitely see the effect of porn on my own boyfriend. He is constantly wanting to try anal sex and I have no interest in it. Unfortunately I dug a hole for myself stating "I would only try anal sex with my husband" and then it occurred to me that I might be marrying this guy. Shit. The porn he watches involves a lot of anal sex...and yes it does bother me. However, 4 years in the Navy and 4 years of porn would probably be influential. I don't think he understand thats the ability to have anal sex requires patience...ugh. Not to mention there is a considerable amount of pressure on my end to adhere to what he's wanting despite my own opinions on the topic at hand.
I don't care for him looking at porn when I am home, ready, and willing. If nothing else, it offends me because I am there. If I'm not, then that is a different story. I think that my generation has been affected toward the negative with so much porn. When it comes to my own issues with my vulva appearance, that has actually disappeared. He says he loves how I look and am glad that I don't look like a "12 year old" down there. Not saying other women do, mind you! I don't see an end to the porn phenomena anything soon..unless Obama passes that internet kill switch....*rolls eyes*
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