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The Story of O is another good movie, very heavily into BDSM.
If you are a dominant personality, especially in the bedroom, this may not be too far of a jump for you. Talk to her thoroughly about what she likes and wants. Safe words are a good thing to have especially if you start to get into more heavy stuff.
Ask her what she likes, where to bite, how hard to spank, how to pull her hair and how hard...etc. Find out if pain is her thing, ask about marks. If she is okay with them and where they are allowed. I personally love to see the marks a few days after the event as a reminder of what happened, gets me worked up to look at them. However, I do not like marks in visible places so they are kept to places that can be covered or thought to be marks from my clumsiness.
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Frivolity, at the edge of a Moral Swamp, hears Hymn-Singing in the Distance and dons the Galoshes of Remorse. ~Edward Gorey
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