Yeah, it's really awkward. I always felt like it was about to go too far. Maybe that's the turn on for some guys but it just felt like an assault charge to me. In the end, I couldn't do it anymore and moved onto the next person... somebody without those preferences. I like to separate sex and moves seen in a Mortal Kombat fatality. I'm okay with the rough sex as long as its mutual, but I'm not going near the "Whip Me, Beat Me, I Need Love"* type again.
As for your answer, it comes from your current partner... and probably not a bunch of horny nerds hanging out on this board. We have stories, though.
Last edited by Plan9; 06-18-2010 at 07:31 AM..
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