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Originally Posted by Strange Famous
I dont know.
I had a sister who died, and 3 of my 4 grandparents are dead. I guess I deal with it by not thinking about it. I guess my answer isnt much help
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IT's totally rational. If something pains you, avoiding it is reasonable - I think that there's far too much focus on "facing our painful memories" - although I have no evidence base for it. My own feeling is that if you are comfortable not dwelling on it, then that's what works for you.