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Originally Posted by Strange Famous
A female teacher taking advantage of a male student is just that, taking advantage, maybe an abuse of authority
But the male student likely does not even see himself as a victim, and nor does most of society. If the average 15 year old male reported to his parents or peer group that he had been seduced by a 28 year old female teacher - they would likely congratulate him, and the teacher thought of as a sad case who couldnt find a real man so had to settle for a 15 year old.
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I was thinking of, say, an 8-year-old male. Would
his parents congratulate him?
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If a 15 year old female reported the same thing the teacher would be treated, rightly, as a predator and a sexual pervert who should most likely be imprisoned.
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So you don't think a 28-year-old female who takes advantage of an 8-year-old boy is a "predator" or "sexual pervert" who should most likely be imprisoned?
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You might think thats unfair, but the reality is thats the way most people see the world. Thats the way human beings are.
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You've already demonstrated that you don't quite understand how most people view the world or the way human beings are.
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Biologically and physically, men always want to have sex at every possible opportunity - even if emotionally or for social reasons they dont
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Is this Kinsey or Freud? This applies to men and their mothers too, right?
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Every time a man penetrates a woman he is BIOLOGIALLY CONSENTING to the act - whether he wants to tell his mates afterwards "oh I was so drunk, she took advantage of me" or she used a cock ring on him or whatever else.
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If a woman is sexually aroused but decides not to have sex, has she already consented because she's already lubed up and ready to go? Should she pay up?
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Without being overly crude, what do you think it means?
If his body didnt consent, he would not have a hard on. If he physically did not want sex, he would be unable to have it.
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There is a difference between the body being aroused and the decision to not have sex. You even said so yourself above.
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Well, I must be some kind of medical freak then. Because I find my erection is not involuntary at all. It is a result of sexual arousal.
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You describe below a scenario about a sexy woman barging in and forcibly arousing you. That's not voluntary arousal. That's automatic. Otherwise, you'd be able to "turn if off" or you'd have been able to "leave it off" in the first place despite her tongue.
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I suppose you would have me believe for most men it just has a mind of its own? And it is some kind of coincidence that it just happens to get hard when men want to have sex?
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The reason why men want to have sex is because of the sexual response, i.e. arousal. In most cases, erections are part and parcel of the sexual response. Try being aroused without an erection next time. Try resist being aroused around something you find sexy, touching in particular...if it's so voluntary.
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I 100% guarantee that if I was to have a knock on my door now, and a sexy woman was there and she grabbed me and started french kissing me etc, my cock would get hard. I wouldnt have consented to do anything, but my body would consent. I might not want to do anything with her (because for example I dont want to cheat on my girlfiend - ie an emotional reason) - but my physical reaction would be as I described.
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Couldn't you just have said no to the erection?