You have said that you are concerned that you would not see your son if you left, and I agree that this is a huge issue (as it was when my wife had an affair). But you have missed the option of you raise your son and your ex sees him on odd weekends?
In my case, she had an affair, and I asked her to move out. My daughter lives with me, and visits my ex.
Just because society assumes that a father must leave and the mother must raise the child, doesn't mean you have to agree.
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