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Salem · 05-27-2010, 08:05 AM

I thin it only matters to partners. Women are either happy with ther breasts, or they're unhappy because they think they're too ____ for someone to love. I'm pretty proportional. I'm 5'4" 113 pounds, 34B or 36A depending on the store. I hate them. For a lot of reasons. My nipples arn't sensitive, and they're semi inverted. They're not super soft and cushy like I would like them to be, beause they're too small to be fatty. I'd like it if they were bigger. A cup size or so, not durastic. Would I ever concider plastic surgery? Not if my life depended on it. This is exactly who I am and you and I have to deal with it. Breast reduction is one thing, medically that's totally fine. I'd get rid of my brain if it got rid of my headaches, props to you for getting rid of the cause of your pain. Do i endorse any plastic surgery for cosmetic and apperance ONLY, Hell no. I think it's ridiculous. Botox, lipo, breastimplants, chin jobs, nose jobs, lip injections, it's all fucking ridiculous.

It's just like the chubby thread. Some people say yay chubby, some people are not in favor. It's preference. If you're chubby often you feel people arnt attracted to you becuas eyou're fat, so you start disliking yourself. Or if you're too skinny, ect. Way too often peoples perceptions of themselves rest of pnther peoples levels of attraction. THat's the only time penis or breast size matters, when it matters to someone else.

To sum it up, breast size does matter. Just the way penis size matters. It doesn't, at all, in the long run. But if you've got a 2 inch penis and you're worried about pleasing your partner, and you're nervous and shy and unhappy with it, Then yeah it matters becuase you're not happy with who you are, and thus not confident. If you're flat chested and you think nobody finds you attractive, you don't find yourself attractive, and you lose confidence and you become unhappy with yourself. And Baraka is right, that's where therapy comes in. Therapy teaching you to love yourself for who you are, that you can't (or shoudn't) change for other people, that you are who you are and that's who you're stuck with for the rest of your life so you better learn to live with it.

05-27-2010, 08:05 AM	#7 (permalink)
Salem Psycho Location: Canada	I thin it only matters to partners. Women are either happy with ther breasts, or they're unhappy because they think they're too ____ for someone to love. I'm pretty proportional. I'm 5'4" 113 pounds, 34B or 36A depending on the store. I hate them. For a lot of reasons. My nipples arn't sensitive, and they're semi inverted. They're not super soft and cushy like I would like them to be, beause they're too small to be fatty. I'd like it if they were bigger. A cup size or so, not durastic. Would I ever concider plastic surgery? Not if my life depended on it. This is exactly who I am and you and I have to deal with it. Breast reduction is one thing, medically that's totally fine. I'd get rid of my brain if it got rid of my headaches, props to you for getting rid of the cause of your pain. Do i endorse any plastic surgery for cosmetic and apperance ONLY, Hell no. I think it's ridiculous. Botox, lipo, breastimplants, chin jobs, nose jobs, lip injections, it's all fucking ridiculous. It's just like the chubby thread. Some people say yay chubby, some people are not in favor. It's preference. If you're chubby often you feel people arnt attracted to you becuas eyou're fat, so you start disliking yourself. Or if you're too skinny, ect. Way too often peoples perceptions of themselves rest of pnther peoples levels of attraction. THat's the only time penis or breast size matters, when it matters to someone else. To sum it up, breast size does matter. Just the way penis size matters. It doesn't, at all, in the long run. But if you've got a 2 inch penis and you're worried about pleasing your partner, and you're nervous and shy and unhappy with it, Then yeah it matters becuase you're not happy with who you are, and thus not confident. If you're flat chested and you think nobody finds you attractive, you don't find yourself attractive, and you lose confidence and you become unhappy with yourself. And Baraka is right, that's where therapy comes in. Therapy teaching you to love yourself for who you are, that you can't (or shoudn't) change for other people, that you are who you are and that's who you're stuck with for the rest of your life so you better learn to live with it.