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If the chef is screaming at a male member of staff I wouldnt consider it my business, and it would make the guy feel imasculated if someone cut in to defend him
If he spoke in an unacceptable manner to a female member of staff I might have to take issue with it - but I'd try and do it in a way that it didnt make the member of staff feel it was about them - because it might make them feel uncomfortable. But like if my gf was there I could pull the chef up and be like "listen you cunt, how dare you swear in front of my girlfriend in this way" or whatever...
So thats my view. I would consider stepping in if the chef was bullying a woman in an aggressive way....I wouldnt necessary offer him to come oustide, but I'd give him a bit of language to see how he liked being talked to like that certainly. Otherwise I might not like it, but I probably wouldnt do anything. Probably most people wouldnt, which is why bullies mostly get away with being bullies.
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The Gospel of Thomas
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