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Originally Posted by Idyllic
You treat effeminacy like it’s a fucking weakness, it’s NOT….. I am a female, true I probably will never be as muscularly strong as men, but just go ahead and touch one of my loved ones and see how feminine I am…… I’ll happily crush you as I wear my little pink dress and 4” Stilettos, smiling coyly with my mani/pedi appendages and my hair perfectly moisturized.
And you men wonder why some women feel the need to become more masculine, maybe it’s because you men see anything feminine as an inferior and weak, is that how you perceived your mother, weak and inferior….?
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Stop going on your own trip.
Noone here is hating either females or the feminine.
To ask for one's space as a man is not to hate the woman. To ask for one's space as a masculine person, is not to hate the feminine.
Respecting someone or a trait, should not have to mean that one should lose one's own nature/ individuality in order to accomodate the other. Respect can come only when personal spaces are clearly defined.
All I'm asking for is to create a space for the masculine gendered to bond with men (and it includes romantic/ sexual bonds), that is not mixed with or confused with male femininity. A space where a man doesn't have to break from the original men's identity/ space.
Why is this too much to ask for?
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Originally Posted by The_Dunedan
It's a neat trick, isn't it? When proven wrong, unilaterally change the definitions of the words which prove you wrong until they magically prove you right. Hey, it works for the Nostradamus freaks, so why not?
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Btw, you have asked for several sources. I'd definitely provide them.
However, I've already provided some important sources, which would partly or fully answer some of your doubts, especially about most straight men having a strong desire for other men. Do some work too, instead of just arguing without knowing anything. At least, read the sources that I give. I have even included the tests from those sources.