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Sometimes, the society conspires to call 'spade' a shovel. And then confusion starts. The people get used to calling the spade a shovel. And then you have to work hard to make people realise that its actually a spade.
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Except that "spade" and "shovel" are two different words for the same frikkin' thing! It's no different than Cougar/Puma/Catamount/Mountain-Lion/Panther: multiple words for the same big hungry bad-tempered kittycat.
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sexuality something that is primarily a tool for 'buying' social manhood, rather than something to enjoy that it has been for women and queer males (whether they like men or women or both). There is often little relationship between actual sexual/ romantic desires and sexual behavior/ identity of men.
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I dunno what kind of males you've been hanging around, but my suggestion would be to look for new friends. I'd also suggest finding -some- sort of support for this kind of insane position: you expect me to believe that the reason I like pussy (and I do, VERY much!) is not because it's tight and warm and wet and attached to a good-looking woman, but because I'm -forced- to like pussy in order to win the approval of other males? That's the silliest thing I've heard all week, and I work in retail!
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Ironically, the women and queers think, its the masculine gendered male (that they call straights) that really 'enjoy' sex.
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This one certainly does! And like many heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual and pansexual males, I expend a significant amount of time and money pursuing it. If I didn't heart teh vag, I certainly wouldn't spend as much of my precious time and hard-earned money chasing it as I do, and I think lots of other folks are in the same boat, straight or otherwise.
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In fact, you talk about the right to enjoy sex, and men will accuse you of 'complaining.'
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Where are you getting this bullshit? Men commiserate about their frigid girlfriends, uptight boyfriends, pussy-whipping wives and general lack-o-nookie to each other ALL THE TIME. If you knew how much time the average man (straight, gay, whatever) spends complaining about his lack of or desire for sex, you'd never make such a ridiculous statement. To quote my -very- straight bartender: "This sucks...I a'int had pussy since pussy had me!" And this is in public, mind you. Nobody gave him a bad time about it except to suggest a few of the more...available...ladies at the bar, none of whom interest him. And as for being accused of "complaining" if you voice a desire to enjoy sex...I simply have no response to that. You've pulled that from so far up your ass it isn't even fully digested yet. You might as well insist that Kentucky Bluegrass was brilliant vermillion red. Your statement does not coincide with reality.
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Yet, if they get a chance, a desire deep inside them would would start craving for intimacy with another man. Had it not been for their conditioning, they would have had long term, committed bonding with a man.
As the normal, regular males (straights -- actually, those who really have an exclusive, deep heterosexual orientation are not 'normal','regular males) have done in any age or culture where the society did not play politics with their natural sexuality.
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Source for this insanity?