Um.... I think a whole lot of my gay friends, who see themselves as very masculine, and not girly or feminized at all, would object to your notion.
Also, why do you care what other people think about you?
No disrespect intended, but you seem very angry-- much more than a rather abstract and theoretical argument about cultural constructions of gender and sexuality would seem to warrant. I guess the question your post makes me ask is, what's happening in your life?
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Dull sublunary lovers love,
Whose soul is sense, cannot admit
Absence, because it doth remove
That thing which elemented it.
(From "A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning" by John Donne)
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