Keep trying the track you are on, talk to doc about other options, and most importantly talk to Mandy and make sure you two are on the same page. I'm sure she will want you to do what keeps you happy and healthy and gets you back in the sack quickly.
For the record, some of us ladies do prefer uncut, I like the way it looks uncut. Plus it is like a present that slowly unwraps itself before my wondering and lustful eyes...