little_tippler

Someone I can have intelligent, witty conversation with. That is a huge turn on.

Someone who will dance with me. Maybe even sing hah.

Playing a musical instrument.

A guy who can easily go from goofing around to showing sincerity and interest.

Someone generally creative that likes to try new things.

Someone who enjoys the outdoors and outdoor activities but is also just as happy staying home relaxing.

Believes in his own abilities and doesn't rely on religion for his strength or peace.

Speaks more than one language well.

Doesn't smoke or take drugs apart from the odd drink.

Someone who can cook really well.

A guy who doesn't freak out if I freak out

Someone with humility but that is also feisty.

Someone who doesn't have unrealistic expectations of what life should be like and instead just enjoys life as it develops.

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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.

Fernando Pessoa, 1918