a_hero

Definitely should have done that. Spoke to her last night and told her that i had been telling a few fib's and that i had basically stayed open to the idea of a relationship so she wouldnt tell my sister and because i enjoyed the sex. Surprisingly she took it really well and said that shes "over" guys anyway so its not a big deal to her that we can't date, but that shes keen to keep having our rendezvous at night.

So basically ive hit a double combo by managing to keep the sex but also lose her desire for a relationship. If only i could hit the trifecta and somehow make her hot.

I think that woke me up and made me realise i had to proactively do something about this otherwise things might hit the shit. Cheers buddy and to everyone else who guided me.