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If you really want to avoid the woman you're breaking up with, you may want to move away from the area. Your sister will likely find out. If she doesn't, it's because her friends feel they need to protect her opinion of you. Not a likely scenario with this crowd.
How to make the best of this rotten situation:
You could potentially smooth things over by breaking things off slowly.
Here's one scenario:
You could tell your sister that you've been seeing her friend, then go public with it, then let the relationship fizzle out slowly over the course of a month or two. Most young relationships don't last long anyway.
I don't quite understand your concerns about her looks. By going public with the relationship, it would give people the impression that you're more interested in personality than beauty.
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