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a_hero · 04-10-2010, 07:50 AM

To get to the facts, im screwing one of my younger sisters friends (shes 18 im 20). Shes apparently had a life long crush on me, and our relationship is basically that of me recieving text messages late on weekends with her offering her services. Up to this point there has been no contact in daylight hours, so its basically the good old fuck buddy scenario.

The problem is that shes not attractive, to give you guys a picture, imagine a short stumpy ugly chick. Usually im all for having obscenely low standards, but if my sister finds out about this 3 month saga im in for a huge amount of embarrassment. So basically im trying to find a way to stop her from finding out.

Ive made it real clear to her that my sis can never find out about this, and ive reasoned with her that if she found out, she would be so enraged that i could never see her again. This had been working real well up until tonight when i found out she had told her best friend (another one of my sisters friends) about "us". It went downhill from there, she decided to grill me on why we cant make this a proper relationship and all i could really come up with to counter was the usual, that my sis would hate it. She didnt really take that as well as usual (teared up) and im getting the impression that its getting to the point where i have to make my intentions clear, and tell her i dont have feelings for her.

The complication is that i dont know how to do it.

Tell her i dont have feelings and risk her being so pissed that ive been fucking her for a few months without caring that she tells my sister to spite me.

I cant really think of much better, and im heading towards the option of just staying out of contact with her until she leaves in 6 months.
I managed to delete my number from her phone and all our messages that we've sent. The only other bit of paper trail remaining is our facebook correspondence which i wont be able to get to.

Im really just looking for general advice from anyone and especially those who've been in a similar situation to me.

04-10-2010, 07:50 AM	#1 (permalink)
a_hero Upright	Sex buddy dilemma To get to the facts, im screwing one of my younger sisters friends (shes 18 im 20). Shes apparently had a life long crush on me, and our relationship is basically that of me recieving text messages late on weekends with her offering her services. Up to this point there has been no contact in daylight hours, so its basically the good old fuck buddy scenario. The problem is that shes not attractive, to give you guys a picture, imagine a short stumpy ugly chick. Usually im all for having obscenely low standards, but if my sister finds out about this 3 month saga im in for a huge amount of embarrassment. So basically im trying to find a way to stop her from finding out. Ive made it real clear to her that my sis can never find out about this, and ive reasoned with her that if she found out, she would be so enraged that i could never see her again. This had been working real well up until tonight when i found out she had told her best friend (another one of my sisters friends) about "us". It went downhill from there, she decided to grill me on why we cant make this a proper relationship and all i could really come up with to counter was the usual, that my sis would hate it. She didnt really take that as well as usual (teared up) and im getting the impression that its getting to the point where i have to make my intentions clear, and tell her i dont have feelings for her. The complication is that i dont know how to do it. Tell her i dont have feelings and risk her being so pissed that ive been fucking her for a few months without caring that she tells my sister to spite me. I cant really think of much better, and im heading towards the option of just staying out of contact with her until she leaves in 6 months. I managed to delete my number from her phone and all our messages that we've sent. The only other bit of paper trail remaining is our facebook correspondence which i wont be able to get to. Im really just looking for general advice from anyone and especially those who've been in a similar situation to me. Last edited by a_hero; 04-15-2010 at 03:11 AM..