I read a really interesting article about an American woman who went to Japan for grad school or something. She wrote particularly about dating and sex in Japan. Turns out in the Japanese view of sex, the woman should pretty much lie there and be passive and make embarrassed noises during sex. That explains a lot about the hentai I've seen, because it's basically exactly that--the man is aggressive and, to Western eyes, basically assaults the woman, who looks downright unwilling. But that's normal sex for Japan.
She wrote that, not knowing this, she climbed on top of her first Japanese sexual partner, and started riding him, and he went very still and just laid there until she got them both off. Afterward he said how kinky and weird it was to have his partner "turn him into the woman" like that. Turns out ONE partner has to be the "fuck-ee", and changing up the gender roles is at least a little bit taboo...
Anyway, in that context, you can see that rape is of questionable wrongness. She's supposed to "not want it" in normal sex anyway, so...
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