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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
Plus, I have witnessed more than several conversations here at TFP where women were lambasted for snooping on their boyfriend's/husband's computers because they thought they were cheating. What were they told? You should talk to him - snooping is bad, that is his private property.
Either the climate has changed very drastically or there is a double standard.
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I don't think the opinions have changed because of the genders involved. There are the same extremes ranging from "they made me snoop\I'm a victim" to "talking solves everything, and people always tell the truth and know what they want", and the actual life answers in between.
Why do you think this is different?
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