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Sounds to me like you've never been in a long-term relationship.
I didn't mean to say that fucking around isn't significant, what I meant was that I've seen many more marriages end because of things like: being cold, emotionally unavailable, disinterest, lack of support, financially irresponsibility, addiction to drugs or alcohol. In fact, I'm sure I've read somewhere that money troubles and detachment are more likely to be fatal to a marriage than sexual infidelity. Momentary drama is far easier to get past than is years of unhappiness.
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