Personally, I wouldn't advise it unless you're absolutely sure that you want to do. Fulfilling your lover's fantasies is a wonderful, giving thing, but the dynamics change when you consider bringing another person into it.
And I tend to agree with fresnelly, this is more of a voyeuristic thing than anything else. It's just kinky, doesn't have a name that I know of.
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