Swinggirl/Warmoney:
Have your sex lives always been this vibrant? I know you said it's ramped up in the last few years, but were you ever ho-hum / stuck in a rut? If so, how did you get out of it to where you are now?
Frequently on this forum, we have people who post on how their significant other doesn't care about sex anymore, etc. I would be really interested to hear how you guys rev'd it up! Did one of you initiate it? Did either of you resist? Were you kicking yourselves for not realizing you were both thinking the same things? Anyway, if you want to share - I'd love to hear how you got here.
Regarding the OP, when I initially read it, I was thinking, "Oh dear God, don't do it." Then, when I heard you had done some swinging - even if it was soft-swapping - it all made more sense. Perhaps the reluctance I would have is that you can't take it back. If it invokes unexpected feelings, you can't undo it.
If I were you swing girl (but I'm a dude), I think would be plagued with my inner thoughts: "Am I outwardly enjoying this
too much? Is he thinking, 'how come she never screams like that with me?'..." Because the thought doesn't seem to turn you on much, perhaps it would feel a bit like a performance - which might ultimately feel degrading?
What about one of those dick covering strap-ons, so WarMoney can screw you with a mule's pecker, but it's still him?
