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Originally Posted by Plan9
And hey, I can be just as judgmental and prickish as any other forum post champ in here. Are you pissed because you have competition or something?
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Well we all have our talents - don't cramp my style.
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Originally Posted by Plan9
I can't believe I'm going to say it but: People cheat all the time. Why think your relationship is any different? Because you "know" your partner? Hah! Hell, I've been cheated on twice. Sadly, I wouldn't know anything about partner privacy. I've never had any, myself. My last few partners fixed me of that little hurdle. They used to dig and dig in "my stuff" and yet they were the ones that decided to bounce on another crotch. Oh, the irony.
As is with all things in life, there is a difference between the mission statement hanging on the wall and the reality of the job.
Relationships are no different.
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I don't think anyone has argued the point you're attempting to counter. Some suggested offering her the benefit of the doubt which is more than reasonable enough but, yeah - what's wrong is still wrong regardless of what's at stake.
Contrary to what you've suggested, I've written everything I've posted in this thread not only with an understanding that in
The Real World people cheat but also with the belief that by the time the need to invade the privacy of your partner arises, infidelity is very likely the least of issues from which your relationship suffers.
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