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I didn't dismiss the evolution or compersion or frubble, nor do I claim to have a "cutting edge" on anything.
And if you don't call someone else's cock in one's wife cuckoldry, what do you call it? I've already asked that. I've already admitted that the term is problematic because of its archaic ties, which you as well seem to have a problem with. In its archaic use, it was a derisive term. It isn't only that now, especially with the fetish communities we both have referred to. This means the word has multifaceted meanings. Many old words are like that.
So I ask you again, what do you call someone else's cock in one's wife? And why do people get off on that?
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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