I don't even know where to start, Baraka. "Someone else's cock in my wife's vagina" equaling "cuckoldry" is NOT a new evolution of the term. THAT'S the medieval usage. It was applied whether or not the cuckold even knew about the situation--ie whether or not he even had an opportunity to be jealous. In the antique usage, jealousy had nothing to do with it. It has evolved into contemporary use by a particular fetish subculture that's ALL about submission, humiliation, and jealousy. Go google it if you're unclear on that.
I also like how you can claim to be enlightened about an evolution of the term cuckold, be wrong about that, AND simultaneously dismiss the evolution of compersion/frubble. So... only your words get to evolve, and only in the way you say? It's weird because you claim to be on the cutting edge of this term while clinging to a centuries-outdated notion of what it is, with no real clue about the particular fetish community you're referring to.
Linguistics aside, okay? If you're going to talk about the cuckolding fetish, at least understand what that is. If this guy went on Craigslist and said he wanted to fulfill his cuckolding fantasy, I guarantee what he'd get isn't what he's said here that he wants. So. Don't tell him what you think the term is, because that's not the term.
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