Recovering trust in one another will be difficult. She owned up to her affair, but how much evidence was required before the breaking point? Some thoughts to consider.
1. How will the affair affect your wife at work? If she interacts regularly with this fellow, she may need to quit or be reassigned elsewhere, and if her boss discovers what happened, her employment could be terminated.
2. Should the wife of the other man be informed? They may have children together, and calling her up could result in a broken home. For all you know, she could also be cheating on him.
3. Will you forgive her and attempt to mend the damage? Being caught with the knowledge that you no longer trust her could drive your wife even further away, causing her to simply be more discreet in her future affairs.
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