Idyllic

compersion, new word, love new words, cool.

WarMoney, Your a pretty amazing dude, I think maybe, that if it were me, and I had this great guy who was so seemingly compassionate, and so giving, and so many of those rare things that we women want in a man, and think never exists, I'd be terrified of you potentially changing your mind mid camp, or not getting out of it what you expected or I don't know, I would greatly be afraid of your lose, lose of anything from you, in anyway.

I think your reassurance could be as positive as you could possibly give me and it may just make me love you more and not want to take that risk. Just a thought.

Maybe why your lady enjoys her time with the other wife more than the husband is because it is a feeling of pleasing you by your watching and pleasing herself which may be elevated merely because it pleasures you to watch her, but there is definitely less risk for her to have feeling like she may be hurting you, as most men don't seem to look at girl girl relationship as that threatening. As a woman the possibility of hurting my husband in anyway frightens me, especially his manliness. Not saying that is your case, but that is how we women are typically taught to think.

How about another woman with a strap on, you know we woman really do know what other woman like, to most degree, maybe even a little dominatrix, if your lady approved obviously. I know the whole restraint thing can be very tantalizing, and if done right extraordinarily pleasurable, maybe even add a little sensory deprivation. Still though she feels less threatened by a woman, it would seem.

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p.s. I contradict my contradictions, with or without intention, sometimes.