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Old 03-18-2010, 04:44 PM   #30 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by SecretMethod70 View Post
I think this is just a sexual form of compersion, really.
I think that sexual compersion is a form of cuckoldry. There are various themes to it, but cuckoldry generally refers to a man and his adulterous wife, whether or not he knows about it. Cuckoldry as fetish implies that he derives pleasure form it. He can be right there in the room, and he can even be participating somewhat, but it generally is the same situation: his wife is having extramarital sex with a man.

In this case with the thread here, I generally found it interesting that he seems really into it, but she's indifferent and even confused about it as a source of pleasure for him.
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