Maybe it was my non-traditional upbringing but I'm a traditionalist when it comes to marriage and monogamy. If you've already "done this a couple times" where it's involved you fooling around with another woman and another guy for a bit, well it can't seem -that- unusual that he gets off on seeing you with other people. Your mindset can't be too off base either seeing as you can look him in the eye and tell him you're upholding your wedding vows while having sex with someone else.
So I guess color me a bit confused that the thought of him being with another woman is OMG SO AGONIZING while the thought of yourself being with another person if perfectly fine. Dare I say that's being a bit hypocritical?
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