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I'm sort of jumping on the bandwagon at this point, but the fact is that you're asking the wrong questions of the wrong people.
Is this a one time thing, or does he want to introduce a third party on a regular basis?
Does he expect that because you have sex with another man, he should get to have sex with another woman? You've already stated that you're not comfortable with that, so it needs to be clear that it's not an option.
And most importantly, is this something you want to do?
Sometimes fantasy is best left in the realm of fantasy. If you're opposed with this idea, doing it to make him happy is a bad decision. If that's the case, perhaps some roleplaying would be an alternative.
No prize for guessing who you should be asking these questions.
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I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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