I'm not trying to live vicariously through Spiker, I'm trying to prevent another trusting husband getting his heart ripped out of his chest and stomped on by a woman who thinks she has a right to do it because of some misguided and righteous indignation. My strategy of approaching the friend and husband has all tracks covered if his wife isn't cheating on him. Even if they go to his wife and tell her they think he suspects something it's all good in the hood, he just wanted to ask them if he could swing with next time she was heading up to their place because he likes spending time with friends.
If there's no trust in the relationship no amount of lying is going to change that, she's going to lie about her infidelity for certain. No one confesses that shit until everything is over. Best he knows what time it is instead of waiting and hoping his wife has some brilliant flash of conscience that's never coming.
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