snowy

You asked for opinions, so here you go: communication by text/email is NOT the same as face-to-face communication. You should not be discussing your feelings via these media--you should be talking about them in person. Email and text do not carry the same amount of information as face-to-face communication. Speaking about this in person is in your favor; you will gather more information from a conversation where you can watch her respond. Nonverbal cues are a huge part of interpersonal communication.

It sounds like you need a lot of work on the communication front in general. You should look for information on how to improve the communication climate in your relationship and how to effectively manage conflict. Based on what you've said, it sounds as if you have a negative communication climate in your relationship and use ineffective conflict management strategies.

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