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Big surprise, I agree with Charlatan. All of the 'well-laid plans' for 'finding her out' without actually confronting her sound a little too slick. I've been on the planet long enough to know that those sorts of plans usually end up in one place - backfire!
There is no substitute for meeting confrontation in a relationship head on. What if she did nothing and then sees that you took such a circuitous, sneaky route to finding out? There is more to betrayal, after all, than fucking around. Even if she did have sex, then the matter will resolve itself either way...without involving other people unnecessarily.
Keep it simple.
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