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I am seeing like Skafe.
His relationship is already fucked up. Assume for the moment that she is innocent and he approaches with these accusations or worse, proceeds to poke around asking questions of her friends. Now he not only has to deal with the fact that his inner voice doesn't trust her but the fact that she now believes he doesn't trust her. He has effectively broken her trust.
If she is guilty, he needs to decide if he wants to continue the relationship.
From his opening post, he has already pretty much assumed she is guilty and he just wants to prove it. My ultimate answer is, Why bother? He doesn't trust her. She's guilty in his mind and he's just looking for proof. Why wait? The trust is already gone and he is just looking for something more substantial to throw in her face.
Make the decision now to move on, or... have a talk with her. Start from the idea that he doesn't trust her and see where it goes. There might be a way to salvage it from that starting point. But most of it is going to be on him rebuilding his trust of her.
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"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke
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