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Plan9 is right.
Also, and this is from personal experience, if she did in fact cheat on her husband with another couple then she very, VERY likely feels no remorse at present time. Maybe down the road but definitely not now. All she will do when confronted with a patchwork of half-evidence is get indignant, clam up and things will be way uglier as she'll throw out accusations like, "we're married, why would you ever think I was capable of such a horrible thing" and "oh how awful a person I must be in your eyes" and lord knows lots of other things meant to guilt-trip him into a false sense of mistaken circumstances. I mean really, how could he ever think she could cheat on him. How horrible a person he must be to think she's even capable of that!
Bullshit. If he plays it cool, does the smart thing and compiles a lot more proof that she's cheating then when he confronts her and she gets the aforementioned indignant, up-clammy and ugly he can say, "look, I know you did it. i have all the proof I need. now go away." She can't try and make him feel like shit for accusing her of something she now knows they both know about. Just can't happen. She can call him all the names in the world, none of which can stand up to the most important one in that situation: lecherous cheater.
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