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Originally Posted by Charlatan
The best approach, especially given you are having relationship issues, is to talk to her about it. Talk to her about your concerns. Confront her but don't be confrontational. Playing games by asking her friends or trying to entrap her is just childish and will exacerbate any trust issues you have with her buy giving her reasons to not trust you (i.e. escalation of the situation).
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Not to state the obvious but the OP said he emailed her saying he was feeling off, the wife asked what she did that could possibly cause him to feel that way. If confronting her with no real evidence would work, it would've elicited some sort of response from her when he said what he did. Instead she's playing games and, as they say, game on. Talk to the friend and husband first, get them to slip up and then you confront her.