The best approach, especially given you are having relationship issues, is to talk to her about it. Talk to her about your concerns. Confront her but don't be confrontational. Playing games by asking her friends or trying to entrap her is just childish and will exacerbate any trust issues you have with her buy giving her reasons to not trust you (i.e. escalation of the situation).
Speak to her.
Just curious, would you be OK with the threesome if it were a foursome? If the answer is yes, you might offer her that option. Just a thought.
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