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I'm a sneaky bastard so my mind automatically goes for the path of least resistance. Confront her friend and husband instead. Tell them you heard about the good time they had when your wife was visiting and you were wondering they would mind if you came with next time. Gauge their response as they won't be expecting you to ask them about it, in a cheating situation they expect the husband to go to the wife about it, then the wife warns the other party to play it cool. In this case you have your bases covered as you can always feign ignorance and say you were talking about what a good time they had hanging out, watching movies, etc and that you'd love to join in on the good times too.
Worst case scenario they feel really awkward and lie, tip off your wife that you might suspect something and then either get a confession out of her or she continues lying, whereas you leave her cheating ass on the curb and feeling righteous doing so. Best case scenario you get them to slip up, confront your wife and rub her nose in the shit, leave her cheating ass on the curb and feel righteous doing so.
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