Spiker

Hey Everyone;

I have a strong suspicion that may wife may have been unfaithful. I'll lay out the situation and could really use some thoughts.

She went up to visit a long time, 30 year long girlfriend this past weekend, this same GF was down at our place with he husband two weeks ago. My wife and I got into a pretty good fight that weekend and it made things a bit awkward to say the least. That fight led us to the point of contemplating separation but cooler heads prevailed and a week later she said she didn't want to leave. that weekend they were here they drank a bunch of wine and got pretty looped.

So she decided to go visit this GF this past weekend. My suspicion is that there was a threesome had and I get that feeling due to;

-Saturday morning she shaved her private areas which had not been done in a while. I was home from the gym before she left and noticed she got dressed by putting her panties on with her housecoat still on, she did not get totally naked like she normally does. I get the feeling she was trying to conceal? Last night in bed I felt her and commented surprisingly that she had shaved, she replied yes so in case she wanted to jump my bones when she got home. She then offered up a quickie even though she was a complete wreck due to a hangover.

-I checked the bag she left with this morning and found she had taken some black lingerie bottoms, a thong and another type. She wore a black bra when she left. She had also packed a matching bra/thong. The black pair of lacy panties had very obviously been worn, there was a significant amount of female "juice" on the panties, she had obviously been pretty wet? Why would she pack so much "lingerie" for one night? If she wore a pair of panties up and another pair home, why and when did she wear these black ones?

-while she is normally very conservative sexually, she has a had threesomes twice in the past, once with me. Lately due to relationship trouble our sex life has been very routine and although she has never said anything I've noticed it. Her two threesomes were years apart and with a good friend of hers. she was drunk both times. Is it possible that she could go there with a life long friend?

I sent her a message this morning telling her I had a weird feeling and she of course has asked why and what she did to make me feel that way. I said just leave it it was just my head spinning from our recent issues.

Am I totally paranoid or do you think I'm on to something? how do I proceed from here? I cant confront her about going through her bag but I just knew something was not right and there are these panties heavily soiled.

Could this have been some planned thing?

WTF do I do with this? Given that we were so close to losing our relationship I dont know how to tread?

Thanks!