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While I can appreciate what you are saying, geeza, I wasn't saying anything about whatever fun fetishism, eroticism, or power dynamic play of the situation people get into.
I was talking about the objectificating, humiliating, frustration-inducing contest this situation would turn sex into. That's not always consensual, and it's not always healthy or positive, by any stretch of the imagination.
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