I only "lost it" a few months ago, aged 33... I never thought about it much. I'm a typical geek and a loner, and don't meet a lot of people. It took a very special girl a lot of effort, but eventually we got together for a very interesting evening (and night, and morning, and...). Given my lack of experience, I was afraid I would disappoint her. But it turned out to be very pleasurable for both of us.
Just relax. You'll meet someone eventually.
...oh, if you do meet someone, make sure you don't just focus on yourself. Giving pleasure is much better for your ego than receiving it.
