My first fiancee was a stripper. It's how she paid for college when the grant money wasn't enough. She felt it was less horrible than taking out school loans...she never liked being in debt. When I met her she was already in a white collar job as a city planner, but she still loved going to strip clubs. She was a bit of an exhibitionist, and knew many of the girls who worked there.
I never had an issue with it. It was just a job. She'd stated she enjoyed it, but just saw it as a job she'd had in the past. I never saw stripping as dirty in any way. I always saw guys who went to strip clubs as silly, but I that's an whole other issue.
I wouldn't date a still working prostitute, but if a girl told me she'd been one in the last, it wouldn't bother me, as long as she'd been tested. That's true of anyone I meet who was sexually active, though, so no real difference there.
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