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She's probably embarrassed.
I have had a few outbursts with my current SO, thanks to hormonal birth control. Crying fits, basically, or similarly immature behavior. Since I'd had a very good summer (emotionally) when I hadn't been on birth control, and had a pretty good start to the fall before I went back on it by his request, we tried quitting it.
And now he never wants me to go back on hormonal birth control. I was essentially a different person, and I don't exhibit that ridiculous behavior anymore. It is REALLY embarrassing to see and feel yourself responding to something in an absolutely crazy manner, but not be able to stop the trainwreck. She's probably too embarrassed to talk to you, knowing that you probably want to throw her to the curb.
Now, it's not a given that she IS crazy due to hormones.. she may be nuts on her own. I know that I never tried to thwart my SO's plans by making up some of my own and throwing a hissy fit when he said he needed to go somewhere - I would have just pouted and been anxious instead. In my birth control days, anyway. Now, I am able to find a way to occupy myself and tell him (honestly) that I hope he has a good time.
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