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Here is the where my stance differs from "a lot of people".
I would never - ever - use the services of a prostitute. I have been through some very dry spells and the thought has never crossed my mind. My reasoning is two fold:
1) I will never be desperate enough for sex to pay for it. I find it demeaning (to me, not to the prostitute).
2) I find it dirty.
It is because of the reason number two, I will never feel comfortable to date somebody (I cannot date somebody without the sexual aspect) who has been was a prostitute or has slept with an enormous number of guys.
It is also because of that, that I will never ask for the "number". If it's high and I like her enough, I don't want to know because it will numb those feelings for me if I find out.
"But Logan!", you ask "could you date a prostitute if you didn't know about her past?"
What I don't know can't hurt me, right?
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Maturity is knowing you were an idiot in the past. Wisdom is knowing that you'll be an idiot in the future. Common sense is knowing that you should try not to be an idiot now. - J. Jacques
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