Yes, the situation sounds like it calls for a perception check, and from there you can decide what to do.
How to do a perception check:
1) Describe the behavior you saw: "You dumped Chinese food (wherever) and threw the movies in the trash can after I told you I intended to follow through with my plans."
2) Give your interpretation of the behavior. "That seemed like a really (whatever) way of handling the situation."
3) Ask for clarification. "Can we talk about it? I want to hear your side of things."
Ultimately, you need more information before you write this one off as psycho, though it may turn out that way.
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